Category: Mental Health
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The Education of a Psychotherapist…

You know, Everyday I work with children and their families. They come to us (I use us…as I am part of a cohort of an awesome group) for help for something that seems to be bothering them, emotionally hurting them, moreover, someone hurting them. And in the years I have worked in this field I have learned that Therapy is more than just providing mental health services… Therapy. A lot has to do with the education about mental health we provide the children and families we work with. Like, What is Mental health? how does therapy work? are there consequences to being in therapy?
Various questions are always asked. So today, I applaud my fellow therapist. Because we educate. We may not be the scholarly awesome school teachers, but we are the people that educate you and yours how to label an emotion. How to better control yourself. We educate your parents, and if you are a parent we help you how to work with your child. We guide you to find your own insight and have you find your solution to your problems, issues, glitches, hiccups, mask… call it what you may. We actively listen to you, at times we are emotional punching bags for you the one grieving, hurting, in pain, even when you succeed. We applaud your success… educate you that being happy about something may not be wrong and sometimes it may not be appropriate.
So when I think of education, I think of what I do, every day! In session, with children and families. We psycho-educate you and yours with what Mental Illness is and what Mental HEALTH is. Yes, Health…as in the healthy part of you. What allows you to be a human and help you go through things you never thought you would be able to go through. So to my psychotherapist friends… I applaud your educational skills, more precisely, your psycho-educational skills. You are educators too.
And Let me not forget… we thank you for teaching us how to work with you too. 🙂
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Jes Sofia
Rachel Pally Maxi
There is something about this Maxi Dress that I love oh so…
It is like being a greek goddess…mixed with a lady ready for the main event. I find it awesome! Check out Rachel Pally’s Fall Collection: www.rachelpally.com.
I love the color and the Dress! My favorite color of course… 🙂
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Decorating Tips From the Spa

By Shelley Levitt for The Style Glossy
Even without the massage, body wrap or facial, spending a few hours in a spa is a great way to relax. That’s because the smells, sights and textures that surround you are themselves antidotes to stress. Having your favorite massage therapist on call 24/7 would be relaxing, we’ll admit. But these decorating tricks from some top spas are the next best way to make your day-to-day life at home more serene.
1. Bring the outside in. Natural elements soothe. At the spa at Colorado’s Vail Mountain Lodge and Spa, the art includes branches sprayed with silver and gold paint and affixed to the walls with dowels and wire. For an even easier do-it-yourself project, simply place branches in a vase. Taniya Nayak, host of HGTV’s “House Hunters on Vacation,” loves to include pieces made of natural wood, like a rustic bench or a carved wooden bowl, in the homes she designs. Or, consider hanging a group of wooden picture frames in different shapes and sizes on a wall. “Don’t put anything inside the frames — not even a piece of glass,” says Nayak. “The frames themselves are the art.”
2. Engage your sense of smell. Bring home the “aaahhhh” scent of a spa with reed diffusers. As essential oils seep up the wood stems, which are housed in a glass cylinder, the scent wafts throughout the room. You can find a wide collection at Pier 1 Imports. Search online for the Archipelago collection — which is available in that spa staple, eucalyptus and dozens of other scents from arugula to verbena — or for Red Flower’s organic diffusers in scents like jasmine and orange blossom.
3. Remember the five natural elements. Incorporate wood, fire, metal, earth and water. For fire, consider flameless candles and tea lights. “These protect your home from candle-related fires, but still give you the ambiance of the perfect spa escape,” says Mindy Terry, president of the consulting company Creative Spa Concepts. Terry’s favorite way to introduce metal is with Tibetan singing bowls. Made from an alloy containing copper, tin, zinc, iron and other metals, “they’re not only beautiful; they’re also an interesting conversation piece.” Plus, they appeal to your sense of sound. Simply tap the rim of the bowl with the mallet and the vibrations will produce crystal-clear tones. You can find both antique and modern versions of the bowls online.
4. Use transparent materials. Glass hurricane vases, for example, will help to create a sense of light and airiness. At the spa at The Ritz-Carlton, Los Angeles, orchids and lilies are submerged in tall vases — a clean, crisp and uncluttered way to introduce water and earth elements in your home. “These simple arrangements add a sense of movement to your space and keep your environment dynamic,” says Jennifer Kleen, the spa’s designer.
5. Keep colors harmonious — but not dull. When interior designer Warren Sheets chose the colors for the Renaissance-inspired spa at the luxurious Grand Del Mar resort in San Diego, he wanted them to be “simple and soothing.” But instead of a monotonous palette of white and beige, he mixed earthy creams with warm slate hues and ecru, and “to lend energy and life,” he used azure blue as an accent color. “Restricting color to various shades of the same family imbues a relaxed feeling, while also evoking a positive energy,” says Sheets. Nayak suggests choosing a paint color for your walls, such as teal blue — and then adding white to make it 50 percent lighter for your ceiling. “A spa vibe doesn’t have to be Zen and quiet,” she says. “It can be hip and modern and still serene.”
Photo credit: Jerry Atnip
Shelley Levitt managing editor of The Style Glossy, is a former West Coast editor of SELF and senior writer at People.
Coach for Cure
The last time I bough a purse it had a lot of meaning to me because It was my little coach purse I take into all my sessions. The Little but VERY FABULOUS Pink purse. First of, I carry it because it reminds me of what can be overcome by strong women all over the world. It reminds me of things I’ve gone through, but most of all its pink, which reminds me that no matter who or where you are at as long as you have yourself, your love for you and others, I will be OK.
This one I bought at the Sherman Oaks Westfields Fashion Square. And Again, The attendant was awesome!
So When you buy this one, think of all the strong women you are buying it for!
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Do you Belong?

I hear lot of people… and A LOT of people always tell me that they do not feel that they belong in their family. They don’t understand how or why they were chosen to be in a family like theirs and sometimes, some people wish that they want to belong to another family. Belonging to your family… Think about it, do you really feel you belong in your family all the time? Some may say yes, others no… this really is based on your own experience and your own point of view. So I base my thoughts process today through facts…as usual.
You see… Belonging…belong…According to http://www.dictionary.com/ is:
1. to be in the relation of a member, adherent, inhabitant, etc. (usually followed by to ): He belongs to the Knights of Columbus.
Fall Back with Michael Kors!
This fall you will find that my picks are what else than awesomeness. Gold! Brown! (my favorite color) and shimmer (a girls friend). A color that looks awesome an Latina Women! (Happy Heritage month ya’ll).
So this is the pieces I’m IN LOVE with this fall…
I know… it is calling your name. Michael call my name every season too! One of my faves! You can buy online http://www.michaelkors.com/
Do you like my pics of the MK season?
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Independant Woman with Lafayette148 New York
There is something about Stripes that make an Independent woman seem that much more independent. I’m happy with strips. It makes my body look curvy in the right places. So when I saw Lafayette148’s new Blouse, I feel in love with it. I want it. 🙂 Imagine me in it? HOT! Going into the office looking and feelings like a million bucks. Check out this season’s Line at http://www.lafayette148ny.com
I think being Independent is part of looking and feeling Independent. But some sugar helps too. 🙂
What makes you feel independent?
Pumpkin and Spice and everything nice.
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Hi Charlie…. Charlie’s Angels GIVEAWAY!
I have always thought that inside all of my girlfriends there has always been an Angel… a Charlie’s Angels of course!… They seem to kick ass at whatever they do and they are always looking great! So I’m excited that Drew Barrymore, the Executive Producer of Charlie’s Angels has made this happen! See it on Thursday, September 22 at 8/7c on ABC.
Set in Miami, this fun, glamorous, action-packed take on the 1970s smash hit series introduces us to three new angels, all fearless detectives, head-turning beauties and close friends. There’s Abby (Rachael Taylor), a Park Avenue princess who became a world-class thief. Then there’s Kate (Annie Ilonzeh), a Miami cop who fell from grace, loosing both her career and her fiancĂ©. Finally there’s Gloria, a disgraced army lieutenant who has a way with explosives. When one of the angels’ missions ends in Gloria’s tragic death, Charlie persuades them to partner with Gloria’s childhood friend, Eve (Minka Kelly), a street racer with a mysterious past. They may not know each other yet, but one thing’s for sure — Abby, Kate and Eve will always have each others’ backs.
One (1) winner will receive:
$50 Visa Cash Card! Let Charlie Heat Up Your Wardrobe with a Visa Cash Card!
All you have to do are Four simple steps:
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3. Send on Twitter: “Hi @Jessofiavalle & @CharliesAngels Hi Charlie! I’m An Angel Too! #CharliesAngels” Use #CharliesAngels As much as you can!
4. Leave a Comment telling me How you are a charlie’s Angel!
The Winner will be notified Via Twitter and JesSofiaSays FaceBook Page After the Season Premiere Thursday, September 22nd 8/7c
Coach and Me
Kristin Collection |
Do you ever just go shopping and hope that someone will just buy you something you want because of that same very reason, because you want it?
Well it happens once in a blue moon for me. If I don’t buy it… (miss independent). No one really else does…until now! I already knew the meaning of gifts… it was so nice to give them, I’m usually the giver, but i found that its also so nice to get them too.
Don’t you love to be thought of like this? I give all the time…but its nice to get it back.
Don’t just give, learn to receive and don’t just receive, learn to give.
www.coach.com | And the Sales rep at the Honolulu Store was the Best! |
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