Online Dating
Love or fuxe!
So I just got back from my friends wedding! They met online and this is officially the 5th couple I’ve had in my life that has gone through the motion of being in love with another human.
so I decided to jump into the pool… apparently the first fish that tried to catch me was a sardine… you know not everyone likes sardines. Especially when they are fishy…
and all I can tell you is make sure that you stay on the app until you feel better, have gotten to know them.. and make sure that you give your place in how you are treated. Thank Goodness I followed my instincts!! Because! People will be people and act like fishies!
but enough about that! Here are some tips for online dating!
- Follow your instincts.
- Read the safety manual on all sites. Every site will tell you and give you hints in what not to do and how not to get enveloped in a hardship… I mean relationships. 😜
- Verify yourself. and talk to people who are also verified.
- Ask for what you do allow and set limits on what you don’t allow in your life.
if you like short people then talk to short people. If you like giant people because tbey can make you feel safe…. Then Date gigantor! - and Be yourself. The more you are you, the more you practice on being the real you with everyone.
- Have fun and attract people filled with joy! Because you are worth it!
- Go to sleep! Maintain your healthy habits! People who really want to talk to you will do so and respect your time.
- Don’t wait too long to long to go on a date.
- Do not give people money! If they ask- it could be a person trying to steal stuff. It’s like rule number one but I didn’t want to scare you until now… I mean well not at all… just caution you if being too nice to people sad stories.
- and last but not least- please post current pictures! Ain’t no one trying to date you from ten years ago! We want to see the black and white hair ya! Show them Chomps! And be happy!
Make it fun to explore,
Enjoy the process!
-Jes
and yes I’m still single ya! Smh 🤦🏽♀️ me! Lol